I think one of the reasons many of us fail in our relationships and many are not happy in a relationship, even when they know they truly love each other is the spirit of control and selfishness.
I don’t know if I am the only one, but when I am dating a guy, I can’t restrict you to chatting with me alone, force you to call me 9 times a day, monitor your moves and all your chats, stop you from talking or even taking selfies with other ladies.
I can’t come and attack and restrict your freedom and happiness.
I want you to do just exactly what makes you happy.
If you truly love me and value our relationship you won’t do anything stupid to ruin it. We are adults.
I just feel,you mustn’t control your partner’s behaviours and freedom simply because s/he is dating you.
But you can make your standards, your limits clearly known.
Talk when you like something and talk when you don’t like something.
But fixing control makes everything in the relationship fake.
Y’all will be acting love instead of being in love.
That is why you feel so bored and alone even when you are in a relationship, because you didn’t allow your love blend in and connect naturally.
? am I making any sense?