Hello everyone. It has been a great journey and you all made it worthwhile. We didn’t win the election to the senate, Plateau North, but we’ve won ourselves the responsibility to keep the movement alive. The struggle continuous. It doesn’t stop here. I am grateful for all your prayers, support, contributions and every effort. May the Lord God Almighty reward you all.
I have learned a lot in the process, and I am much better now. I still have hope in this country for the sake of those who are suffering and have no where to go to. God will come through for us. Things will get better one day. Our “movement for the ordinary man” is not just a political symbol. We will not stop
God bless us.
Henry Pwajok Lodam
Remember the brutal death of your loved ones.
Remember the deaf ears that was given to your cries for justice.
Remember the lies they use to cover up the evil of those who molested your freedom.
Remember those times you starve to sleep because they didn’t pay your salaries.
Remember! Remember! Remember!!!
This may be the only thing you can do to give justice to your loved ones
This maybe the only weapon you have!
Use your PVC wisely!
I think whoever fucked with our minds in Nigeria regarding marriage and relationship didn’t use protection and we all got infected mentally.
And y’all are educational prostitutes, you just accepts and take in whatever comes to you unselectively , now y’all got pregnant with different mixed ideologies and beliefs, you keep boring nonsense and failed relationships.
A poor guy will go and marry a rich girl and try to force her to drop lower than him so he can feel man enough!
A rich person will go and marry a poor person, and he/she will want to be worshipped because s/he feels it’s a favor.
How do you think!!
What have you reduced love to?
If you love something, find someone who loves it too
If you hate something, find someone who hates it too.
Y’all should not be shaking, mixing and bending anyhow then at the end of the day, you feel indebted or deprived of your life.
Stop making relationship hard.
Stop striving to fit into script and feel like you owe anyone a love story.
Find your type
Befriend your type
And marry your type.
I know there’s someone out there who’s about to lose her admission because she lost her parents and couldnt afford to pay her fees.
I know there’s someone out there who laughs in public and goes home to soak his pillows with tears.
I knows there’s someone out there who has given up hope of ever finding true love because of series of heartbreaks..
I know there’s someone right now, looking at the lagoon, with a knife in hand, poison in her hands and you are about to end it all.
I know there’s someone out there who begs for food so her children can survive.
I know there’s someone out there who is being molested by her uncle and is too scared to speak of.
I know there’s someone out there with a fat account and no true friends because everyone just comes to you for the money.
I know there’s someone who keeps giving but never receives from people because they think you have enough..
I wish I can make all these pains go away, make you smile and mean it.
I wish I had it all figured out!!
I Just want you to keep holding on, don’t give up yet..
It hurts I know, you want to just end it..
But please I beg you.. Don’t let your condition determine your trust and believe in God..
Whatever you are passing through might be the challenge you need that will propel you to greater heights..
Happiness will find you and build a mansion in your heart!!
It is well with you!!
I love you all
By Patrick Dominic II
Nigerians love empathy and ‘understanding’more than they love self development and improvement.
You love to excuse bad habits and understand rotten characters, you love to look for someone or something to blame for everything.
Someone have anger problem and instead of open rebuke, plain expression of disgust to it, y’all prefer to understand.
“You know, maybe he is frustrated that is why, you know, it’s poverty, it’s not his fault that was how his father used to beat his mother”
And so what?
You think the world cares? Are you the only one with misfortunes in life?
That is why a waiter can come to your table and picking his nose like beans, holding your water in a tray, and can come and yawn on your face. And he expects you to not be angry, you have to understand, he is just and ordinary waiter, because he is poor. So he should be excused.
What if that person he was about to serve actually wanted to help him?
And he has already displayed his mannerlessness and uncultured habit.
I think this is the reason some of our graduates are unemployed, not because they are not qualified or because of connection. Simply because they have careless poor behaviors.
Ordinary. “why do you need this job? “
You begin to hear something like…
“My father died while I was in the womb, my mother is old and I have 100 siblings to take care of “
You really think anyone cares? Everyone have a story to tell what makes you think yours should be understood and paid special attention?
By that response alone, no one will employ you. They think you are not mentally balanced and you can’t function well.
Lots of you chase good people away because your answer to ‘how are you ‘ is always one sorrowful story or the other.
Stop dwelling and wearing your sadness.
No one really cares, if you want to make it in this world of struggle, you have to keep your self pity at home every time you want to move out.
This life people are so funny and unbelievable.
Someone is in the position to help you, the person is rich enough to pay you for your services, but they won’t pay, in the name of
“help a brother, support my hustle abeg, we go soon blow”
Then you accept and you deliver for free.
They go behind to pay a stranger or they themselves get paid for the services they begged you to render for free.
As if that is not enough.
They come online to make you feel stupid.
“stop doing free jobs, collect money”
” know your worth, let people pay you for your services. “
“no free jobs” etc.
Is this some kind of stupidity, wickedness or hypocrisy?
Kola passed me by my door 300 times now, like he lost his chocolate. I can’t help but to notice those sexy looking packs and well organized beards. Wait!! OMG! that is what he wants me to see…
Hey handsome,looking for something?
He smiled at me.
O my G!! See that gap teeth Awwn, that smile is penetrative and unprotected, please be gentle on me.
I feel pregnant already.
Hey, beautiful, nice figure you have there!!
You are responsible for my confusion.
Uh-huh…. Irresistible Huh? Care for a touch?
Ho wooh!! For real?
You are beautifully generous Huh?
I noticed he was shy so I moved closer.just about to kiss him when a voice called me from inside.
Irish!!… Baby…! Where’s are you.
Oh there!! Who that!
Hey chucks, this is Kola my naive friend.
Kola, this is chucks my husband.
??we left chucks outside trying to find his voice.
Lost in embarrassment.
Don’t be like kola
I love to converse with my spirit and commune with my soul.
I want to hear inner me speak, I want to humbly listen to my own opinion.
Opinion about myself, opinion on my own life.
I want to define myself by myself.
Often times I get my focus swayed and my priorities mixed by people’s opinions.
“This is how it is, this is how it should be”
When I listen, I get confused and lost.
Only some moments with myself, in my own decision room, I get things together again.
Now i have listened to the world enough.
I’ve heard the world judge me, I’ve heard the world praise me. But after it all it’s time to listen to myself.
Now it’s only me who can say who i truly am.
It’s only me who knows what i truly am
And it’s my own opinion about me that really matters at the end of the day.
I am me. I am prudent. I am great. ☺☺
Photograph : #Swift_photography.
There are moments you feel stupid in a relationship.
There are moments you feel love doesn’t have a purpose
There are moments you feel tired of love and everything that is in it.
Your other person doesn’t seems to understand your silence
Your special someone seems to be the major reason why you are sad.
You want to let go but your heart isn’t cooperating
You wish you never started in the first place
You wish you can just erase everything and all the memories that is with it.
But I am here to tell you this night.
Take a deep breath, drink water and sleep.
You’ll be fine tomorrow.
If you read this to this point, just know that you trust me too much.
Is not everytime somebody will be making sense abeg. ?
But messenger people, come we need to talk.
How can someone in your right senses, in your original state of mine just dive into someone’s inbox, someone you are not so familiar with and decides to…
“Xup, hey, sexy sweet , wadup, just hi , hafa and etc” the person?
You get angry when ignored, you get offended when replied back with a hi, I mean, Haba.
The start of the chat is already a vibes killer. How do you expect someone to pick up a conversation with “zup” it just shows how unserious and uninteresting the chat will be.
And please and please.
You mustn’t chat with everyone, everyone is not good at chatting.