When we are going through pain and heartache, we tend to be selfish. Selfish that we don’t even think about the consequences of the choices we are making. When we piss each other off we get vengeful that we want to hurt the baby moma or daddy and we use the kids to hurt them. Ultimately the kids get hurt even more.
When we are feeling the heavy load and depression when we think of committing suicide, we forget about those who we will hurt. The kids and families life time scars we forget about because we are selfish. Life is not all about you and how you feel, it’s also about the consequences of the choices you make in those selfish moments.